Nothing takes the place of feeling valued or knowing that you’ve added value. All bad feelings are on the opposite end of value fulfillment.  Depression is the worst, it is due to imagining hopelessness toward value fulfillment. Turn you imagination around when feelings are like that. There are many opportunities to add and be valued around. Just look for one of the many and forget about the one which seems hopeless for the moment. Get into the good feelings and you’ll attract more of the same and to your surprise, in regards to the one that you were feeling hopeless about too.

You may ask, how do we deal with hopelessness. Deal with it, as in accept or divert?  Well …. we don”t. We are all driven to make progress and we want it to cover all areas, including loneliness. Improving each area, adding value, is the driving force behind all action.  We can always see what is immediately in front of us and how to improve it (add value to ourselves and others) and advance toward our desires. Take the next step. Realize: any thought that a value adding thought isn’t right, is a limiting and inappropriate belief.  Look for ways to add value and reconsider any belief that gets in the way suspicious.

One can not truly get behind by finding and adding value. Believe it! realize it!