There is no way around it. You form your own reality.  You’ve created the reality you believe  is real.

You created everything that you experience according to the beliefs you hold of what is possible.

All that you know as real, all that you know as reality  and all that you know as truth, all of it is according to your belief.

Everything you believe as real was first decided or concluded to be real by you.

Ultimately: you decided or concluded what was real first, before you included it in your reality. 

Not Objects

There is no way around it, because you are NOT the object body you know as you. You merely have the perspective of looking out through that body. You only have that perspective because you primarily use that body to collect its’ sensory interactions with other objects as you consider reality.

You use those sensory details and the beliefs you conclude about the objects you sense as the structures or building blocks to contemplate and decide or conclude the meanings you realize or make real.

As you contemplate and decide or conclude meaning, as your insights form into meaning, you also realize you have preferences.  These you discover as you interact with others like yourself and realize the events making up your experience of reality. As you realize all that you encounter you live life.

We perceive and realize or live for the opportunity to interact, perceive, decide and conclude reality. 

In all instances, in the process of interacting, perceiving, deciding and concluding reality, we also uniquely identify a preference a bias opinion, based on all we know as real, of what would be better.

Biased desire

This identified preference is better known as our “desire”. Desire is more than the great Buddhist dilemma obstructing happiness. Rather; the identification of preference or desires is the basis or reason behind the expansion of our universe and why it is ever improving and never ending.  The realization of preference is how “All that Is” decides what to do or create next. 

This preferential bias of desire toward what is improvement is truly biased. Preference toward improvement is the reason why our universe gets better and not worse.   We live to experience and give birth to desires. But it is up to us whether we use those desires to improve our life experience or get trapped in the noticing of the details that birthed those desires.  None the less, our biased of focus determines what we see and the beliefs we form going forward.